The long journey I didn't sign up for.............

[nodivorceplease]

Thanks yellow!
I would love to hear my H say he just needed to hear my voice!

Yes, I'm going to leave or be busy when he comes over. We've always been best friends so I usually spend a lot of time with him when he is over. He gets to talk with me and spend time with me several times a week but not have to be my H. It feels like cake eating sometimes. He's been coming and going from the house as he pleases and yet he no longer lives here. This is my home. I've never even seen his apt. We can't just "play house" on occassion while he is planning to D me. That doesn't seem right. I'll continue to be pleasant with him but I need to pull way back and give him a taste of not having me so available. It'll be tough to do but I think it'll be good for me too. I'm going to be very busy during the next few weeks so this is a good time to start "going dim". I'll try it for a month and see what happens.

Shelly