The long journey I didn't sign up for.............

[nodivorceplease]

Okay, my H scared the hell out of me this morning. I didn't realize he had taken the day off work because he had a doctor appt. Anyway, I was taking a long hot shower, thinking I was totally alone in my house. Guess who pops over unannounced?? He has never done that before. So, as I am in the shower I am hearing noises in my house, not knowing it is my H. So then he calls my name from the other room and I realize it is him after my heart has about jumped out of my chest. THEN he walks into the bathroom and talks to me while I am standing in my clear glass shower completely naked. He hasn't showed ANY interest in me for months so I was clearly uncomfortable with him staring at me. He says "Oh, the door is all steamed so I can't really see anything." I could see him just fine! He didn't even turn his head, he just stood there looking at me. I'm not embarrassed of my naked body but it was unnerving. Anyway, he got whatever it was he came for and left. Should I just not say anything about it or should I tell him not to come over without letting me know first??? He still has keys to the house but I didn't think he would come whenever he pleased. I don't want to make an issue out of it but I did feel like my privacy was invaded a bit.

On another note, I did somethimg positive for myself today. I've had a hard time getting motivated to go to the gym so I bought 12 sessions with a personal trainer. I have just enough time after my college classes on Wed & Fri to meet with the trainer before I pick up my D7 from school. I'm actually excited about working out now!

Shelly