Hi Shelly,

I'm glad your H showed up at the parent meeting, maybe he will now see that it really is hard on your D.

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For so long my H has tried to say, "Oh, D7 will be just fine. Kids go thru divorce all the time."




This is one of my H's favorite lines too. I can't believe they really think the kids will be "just fine." They can't see how this tears their world apart and shatters just about everything they hold true. Hopefully this will help your H see the light.

I have called to make an appointment for my kids with a therapist. I hope it will help them. They seem fine but they are shorter tempered and the little one has reverted back to callind H "dada" and more talking like a toddler sometimes lately.

So glad your D is still getting good grades. I haven't gotten a report card since my kids found out, but her teacher says she's still doing well.

The devotional reading is good. God can restore marriages and soften hearts. I hope He works wonders for the people on this BB.

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I want to feel hopeful but I am scared to let myself have any hope.




Me too!

Retail therapy has been very helpful to me. But I have to slow it down a bit too. I'm looking into a yoga class once a week and trying to clear out some junk that I don't need or use in the house.

Hope you love going to school Shelly. That will help with cutting back on the shopping.

Take Care!!
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