OMG, I could be your wife. I constantly feel like it and fancy my hubby sooo much that I would be at him all the time if he was up for it.
We have just reconciled (3 months) after living apart for almost two years, and I'm starting to feel the rejection again and wondering if we have done the right thing.
I too feel hornier when I drink, but it also helps to deal with the rejection (which is generally forthcoming).
When we lived apart I'd have a glass of wine when I went out with friends, when we live together I could have a bottle every night. It helps me to try to initiate sex, which I find difficult because of the rejection, and to get to sleep when I'm rejected and frustrated.
Since I came back I haven't drank so much, but it is difficult to get into bed every night and lie apart and to feel so uncomfortable.
If your wife is like me she may be playing games to avoid the contact with you which she would find uncomfortable and frustrating.
I too feel that my husband does not find me attractive and I want to be more than the housekeeper.
She is obviously turning you off with her drinking etc, what could she do to improve the situation?
To look at things from a different perspective the credit cards/debts could be attention seeking or being used as a substitution for her desire.
