Before losing hope, I'd talk with your DB coach on Friday and see what he has to say. It sounds to me like there is a lot more going on in your household than just lack of sex. I'd also take a look into Alanon if I were you.
Hang in there. I'm sure there will be more people making comments to your thread. People around these parts tend to post during the day, and activity drops off at night.
What does the counselor you've been seeing say about your sitch?
