My wife is a beautiful woman but her sex drive is out of sync with mine. She wants sex as soon as I get home or after she has a few beers. That may seem OK for most however there is more.
By the time I get home she has had three or four beers (usually every night) and I'm just kind of exhausted. Also, I'm in the middle of a small lawsuit but nothing like her ex-husband. He is a doctor in the same small town. He hasn't filed a tax return since 2001 and he doesn't pay his child support for his three kids. My wife's oldest son is getting ready to go to college and I don't want to pay for it and I just found out that she has run up an additional $4000 on credit cards this Christmas. I'm having some financial stress issues. Now...she wants sex after she has been drinking (and she drinks a lot ie 20 beers in 2 days last week) and I just don't feel like it. We are out of sync.
I temporarily moved to my lake house last Thursday and when I came back Friday morning she said she was going to move out next Thursday because I don't find her physically attractive. That is not the case.
We have had our ups and downs these last few months I even have a "coach" (Chuck) that I have a scheduled phone call for this Friday.
The sex issue I think is just stress because we made love a couple times two weeks ago. Her drinking is also turning me off. Additionally, she plays video games for 3-4 hours every night. I'm just living alone and not feeling in the mood. It's the strangest thing.....Suggestions
