It is one of the hardest thing I can do is not cast blame to these kids. I want them to know the facts, sometimes I go overboard with what I tell them. But mostly I say she's in a fog right now, and I know deep down she still loves you, She's just thinking about herself.
They are the ones who say that BF is the only one she cares about. And the fact that she got married proves it.
They don't call her. I'm being blamed for that. I'm being blamed for putting things in their heads that just are not true. All I'm doing is trying to move forward with the situation we were put in. Why is that so hard form them to understand? Why don't they realize that it is all of their actions that have these kids reacting the way they are?
I know they have to validate their actions with all the blame towards me, But when do they finally look in the mirror and see the real truth?
I know I'm asking alot of imposible questions. And I know this MLC lasts a long time. But, I'm not the bad guy here. I didn't abandon my kids. And, heres the big one, Why if I was such a terrible person. Why didn't she fight harder for her kids?
