Sorry about how things are going. And particularly sorry for the impact on your girls. I can't help you with much, but I will encourage you to keep being the loving, sane, rational, caring, compassionate adult in their life.
Understand their pain but don't cast blame. It's tough, particularly in your situation, but take the high road, practice your lines with them, so that you are not tempted to add to the division between them and their absentee Mom. You know, I know you do, that your girls understand who is who in this matter. Should Mom ever appear again, she is the one who has the mending to do.
I've kept you on my prayer list for some time. I'll keep you and the girls there.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
