Thanks to both of you. I really got some great advice. Sorry I had to use your name in the title. But I really wanted to get your attention. I know there is alot of great posters and I hope I haven't offended any of them. It was not my intention. I have been so confused by this whole thing that I do things I regret later, this being one of them.
I would'nt know what to do with out this forum. It seems everyday I get new insites on what going on with Denise. I know she's going to go down hard. I really feel for her and hope it isn't too hard on her. I know I can't do anything for her but love her from a distance. Even though right now she has so much hate for me, (At least it seems so from her actions) But I agreed to love her for better or worse and even though now were divorced from eachother. I still truly belive as I always did that she is my solemate.
I have gone completely dark from her for at least 6 months. No contact at all except some occasional pictures to her of the kids, nothing more. I never get a reply, thank you, nothing. I know deep down she appreciates them, but she's too much in the fog to reply. That or she's ashamed.
I won't be sending any for a while. Her actions at Christmas really hurt the girls and she's going to have to live with that. I heard that she got them gifts. but BF told her not to send them. Let them stew is what I heard he said. What does he care? He's got no emotions for these two darlings. He's giving her some really Good advice on how to lose these girls forever.
In the mean time. I'm doing all I can to help these girls along. Their 16 and 11. The 16 yr old is so hard for her mother, I don't think theres any type of repair. The 11 yr old is still missing her Mom and crys at night because she's not there. She's the one that got the news that she got married. It's hurting her more than ever.
Thanks for the reply. I hope all of your sits pan out for you. I'll continue to read and occasionally post to some. For what I know now, maybe I can be some help to others. X
