Man, It just seems like you have to figure out what you want out of this. I mean you are at 90/10 with the 10 being the M.
You could always just sit back for a while, while you figure out what you truly want out of this. Just keep the friendship going and see what happens...
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."