i really dont know what i want to do with her. i can tell you though i have been were everybody here is, had all the same emothions, ask grasshopper, muddlethru, and many others. it was pretty rough for me. but now where am i at???? thats a good question!! i can say with out question i like the relationship i have with my wife right now, if nothing else for the kids. i can tell you if i found out she was with om i would not be bothered, been there done that. she knows that. i told her if i wanted to date i would and she could also. i dont think she likes this idea. na i know she dont, but with me its ok. i am really at the point that i like our friendship, and want to keep that, but my marriage is pretty much over for me, 90/10. there is a little left but its fading.
