I can't speak for CeMar, but I can speak for HD males in general in addressing a couple of things.
Quote: ..The most obvious is first of all you can take care of yourself physically and that does take care of testosterone issues.
umm...no. not at all. not even a little bit. that's just plain wrong. we're not talking about an orgasm deficit, here. This is just no substitute for sex with an actual person...one that by willfully and enthusiastically participating is saying "I love you back". maybe thats something that you can't understand unless you take heaps of supplimental testosterone, or are reincarnated as a man.
Quote: Secondly what about doing the same as you would do if you were single?
wouldn't really be a big issue. Being celibate isn't the problem; its being celibate when you shouldn't have to be. Imagine being a diabetic. its not the best thing in the world, but probably not the worst, either. now, imagine being a diabetic, being incarcerated in a chocolate factory. Now, imagine "Eddy Murphy" dancing around you, waving a chocolate icecream cone, taunting, "...I got some iiiiice cream...and you cant haaaaave none...cuz you can't affoooooord it....cuz you're on the weelllll-fare!". get the picture? that's what its like being HD in an SSM.
being single and celibate...wouldn't be so bad, without the constant reminder.
