You have to join. There are many forums devoted to different topics.
Go to the mens MLC forum. There is a thread for sexually frustrated men started by a woman and other women that realize part of the problems with their M was lack of interest in sex on their part before the H left.
The thread title is To Dewpoint, Still_Jim and other sexually frustrated men Dewpoint had a sexless M for 7 years. Still Jim needs sex 3X a week to be happy. Just two extremes I know about.
Many of the women's WAH are also in a fog and already have an OW and the female posters still want their H back "IF he would give up the OW" and work on some of their/his (H) issues.
Many of the women on other threads say they were hot in the sack and that didn't keep their H from straying.
Some of the women are very vocal about men talking about their LDW, saying it is all the H's fault, yada, yada, yada. At first I was thinking these women don't get it, till another woman said they dont get it because they are the LBS and are still hurting too much to see anyone elses POV. IE good women but in too much pain. They need support so don't be put off if some make comments all men are jerks, selfish ba$tards, ant they (W) was an angle.
Some men post that have an OW and say why they left their W. The women are all over guys like that at first, but eventually the thread settles down, the women quit calling the guy a jerk, but actually try to help the H out as much as they can and he is willing to accept help.
I will call the website more blue collar type folks, not as well read or academic type of discussions go on and fewer psylogical theories/models used there. Well compared to the SSM forum anyway. No dummies there by any means.
There is a forum for women that think about leaving their H or have a strong desire to be with another man but haven’t done anything about their feelings.
It is a place to hear lots of opinions of the many marital stories. Some wise cracking going on, mostly to cover up some anxiety and trying to make the other posters feel a little less sad/depressed.
