Ah. Fair point. But we're really comparing apples to oranges, then. Dr Laura is telling the LD wife she must change. Nobody is telling the HD husband what to do to make his LD wife change because there's no such thing. You can attempt to behave in such a way that your LD wife will *want* to pick up Dr Laura's book and figure out what to do to make you happy but if she doesn't have that in her, then she doesn't.
Wild at Heart is a very good book but it isn't going to cause your LD wife to become HD, either. Unless she does.
You're incapable of happiness in a life that doesn't include sex with your wife. Do you believe this is God's will for you, to live in misery? Have you asked your minister about it?
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