Oops - thanks Lil. I'm still in a haze of fever and cold symptoms. Yes, it is an excellent book and is clearly from the Christian perspective. Cemar - you asked for a Christian version of the Deida material - this is it. It is about YOU not her. However, as with Deida, as with other materials, change in one person will tilt the R dynamic in such a way that the old rules don't apply and the other person will have to figure out where they and their behavior in the marriage fits. It is no guarantee that your W will one day wake up and be the nympho of your neighborhood. However, just maybe it will be an impetus for her to participate in the marriage. Open your eyes Cemar you keep wanting to wave a magic wand over her and change her - if I were her I would wind up resisting that too.
