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There are plenty of people in all religions who will divorce if need be.


Sure the are, but that does not make it right. That is one of the real problems I have, to be happy, I must somehow find a way to go against my deepest principals. That can not be a good thing.

As for divorce being a good thing, I would say that my wife is the perfect example of how BAD it can be. She came from a broken home and all examples of women in her life are FAILURES at marriage. He mother, her aunts, her guardian, her own sisters. NONE of them has a successful marriage (but not all have divorced, yet). So she has no clue as to what a great marriage looks like close up.

I wich there was a deida like book for christain HD men.