Wow - you have an incorrect view of Deida. Elsewhere in his works he describes how when women get anxious and throw a lot of verbage at you, they don't really need the verbage addressed but rather, they need to be "loved open." I don't think he is talking about something non-sexual. He is clearly being sexual and basically intimating that often women just need a good screw. However, if your entire focus is on the R istead of your own mission and purpose women tend to perceive this as a weakness and turn off to you. It isn't on purpose. It just is part of being the female of the species. Remember when I asked you to read Deida with an open mind? This is what I am talking about.
