The Superior Man?

[Burgbud]

In a way, Dedia is trying to get men to do just this, he is trying to get men to STOP focusing on the physical aspects of marriage, and to focus on themselves and their goals in life (again, a LD type action).

I think he's suggesting that focusing on the physical aspects of your relationship isn't the most effective way to improve the physical aspects of your relationship. He's saying men who focus on their goals in life are the most appealing to women.

I'm not sure that's an LD type action. If it is, isn't staying married to a woman who won't have sex with you an LD type action?

I don't know how pertinent it is, but I find it interesting that as a somewhat newly single HD person I have found myself taking LD type action to get out of HD relationships that weren't working for whatever other reason as well taking LD action to avoid LD relationships which I know won't work for me in the long run (but would still provide a "> 0" amount of se)x. It occurs to me that I'm utilizing LD tactics in my pursuit of an HD relationship. It's possible that might work for you as well. Not simply suppressing your desire but focusing on your goals, instead.

Deida's LD type actions, as you define them, are intended to generate HD results.