Quote: So I guess my question to you is, if you were to completely accept, right at this moment, that your wife wasn't going to change and that she'd be LD forever, how would your life change? What would you do differently? Who is Cemar when he's not the guy trying to get his wife to have sex?
I have thought of this many times. If I can not divorce, and my wifes desire can not change, then effectively, my life is over. It's like being single, but with NO HOPE for finding true love. At least singles still have hope. I would be a HD person forced to live in a LD world, and that is the description of hopelessness. It is a world of giving and NEVER receiving. I will end up in a life like MOST older men, a worthless marriage of friendship, I will be forced to try and fill my life with all the little things (like LD people seem to love to do). I will be distant friends with my wife. It truly is hard to live like a LD person. In a way, Dedia is trying to get men to do just this, he is trying to get men to STOP focusing on the physical aspects of marriage, and to focus on themselves and their goals in life (again, a LD type action).
