TL, In no way am I trying to make light of your sitch with your son but I am going to gently use your own words as a velvet 2x4
Quote: I still have moments of rage and anger, bad memories and visions of her with OM that spring up. But now, if I let them take us down, it's my fault, not hers, because she's done her part. She's back.
That's why it's really about us, not them. We either let the hurt and negativity swallow us, or we don't. And even if we do let it swallow us, we can, like Jonah, pray to be delivered from the belly of the fish, and God is faithful to do that.
