TL, Go ahead and rant and rave here. I am in no way trying to defend your W because I do not condone cheating but I'm pretty sure she feels like $hit right now. Try not to rub her face in it. I know you are upset but maybe this cold sore has nothing to do with your W, aren't there 2 kinds of herpes?
Quote: I feel like I've let him down by choosing someone for his mother who obviously didn't deserve him.
No mother I know would intentionally harm their child. Please don't say that she doesn't deserve him. That is not fair to her or your son.