Starting a New Thread to Ask for Help

[BluePoet]

I know you need advice quickly. I can't say that I have been in this position, because my STBX is probably not going to turn around, but...

Try to still remain detached if you can. Remember there is still the possibility of replay, but it does sound as if your H is coming out of it... I'm betting that it still will be hard for him to deal with OW. Feel everything you need to feel, but don't act needy!

Try to find something to pass the time as you have waiting ahead of you for who knows how long. Patience is key I think. Consider yourself lucky that he appears to want to come home and that you still want him home!

BluePoet
(Knowing she wished that this sort of thing would happen months ago, but not sure exactly what she would do now that she sees how bad the R was for her...)