Quote: being positive is the most helpful for me right now. Does that make sense?
It absolutely makes sense.
You are so right that there are heaps of positives in your sitch - I agree it's important to keep focussing on them.
I guess my point really was around regardless of how hard this is for you - he's not getting out of it scott free (and I know you get that too). He's a very troubled and confused man who probably can't believe the mess he's got himself into.
Well done on limiting snooping and being aware of times when you are putting pressure on him.
Keep it up.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
