Tam, you are still too focused on him. He's got you on hold because he knows he can keep you on hold! You've been starting to do some good stuff, well aside from that belly button thing , so keep thinking about YOU not him. Btw, when I mentioned telling him he didn't need to report in on his progress daily, I meant to say it in a light matter of fact tone, nothing heavy. Just give him a little space and see how he adapts to it. But I know you must do things when and if you are ready, no sweat. Keep on putting together the new and improved you and make it for YOU, not just him. Tough I know, but it will see you through. GAL has kept me going for probably 1.5 years, it's a lifesaver. Glad you are reading DR again, follow the steps and advice, just one more lifesaver.
, so keep thinking about YOU not him. Btw, when I mentioned telling him he didn't need to report in on his progress daily, I meant to say it in a light matter of fact tone, nothing heavy. Just give him a little space and see how he adapts to it. But I know you must do things when and if you are ready, no sweat. Keep on putting together the new and improved you and make it for YOU, not just him. Tough I know, but it will see you through. GAL has kept me going for probably 1.5 years, it's a lifesaver. Glad you are reading DR again, follow the steps and advice, just one more lifesaver. 