Tam, think about the times when you two get along best together right now. Is it when you are asking for hugs or badgering him about OW? NO. So do more of what is working right now. Leaving him be. Can you share with him any new and wonderful things that are emerging in your life right now? Something that you are excited about. Have you gone out with any friends you could tell him about? The last thing you want is him to think that you are just sitting around waiting endlessly for him to return. Let him know your life is pretty good right now! Anything you can do to make yourself a little more mysterious? Do you think the dressing up action you took made him wonder? Now how do you deal with the frustration you feel regarding the need to ask about his plans, OW etc. Find an outlet for that stuff be it a friend, an hour at the gym, whatever works to keep you in check! Do some fun stuff for Tam too. Don't let your life be ruled by him, live some for you too!!! P.S. NO more when are you coming home talk!!! Not even a little. OK?
