NOW WILL YOU PLEASE SHUTUP ABOUT ASKING HIM WHEN HE WILL END HIS AFFAIR WITH THE OW....
You have asked him twice today, as well as asking for an affirmation hug...what are you 4 years old? No, you are a grown 35 year old woman who needs to understand that you are still pressuring him, cute or not.
Do you realize everytime you ask him "anything" about when he is going to stop the A - you are solidifying his need to keep her as well as keeping her in his head? Do you grasp this yet? You are pushing...STOP IT...you are thrilled now...but, did he kiss you goodbye...no...how do you know he won't end it after Hawaii? Maybe he feels that it's just a business trip....
Sorry, but I'm playing Devil's Advocate here...not to hurt you...until he's home, in your bed, every night...you're still in left field. You talked business tonight...you say you normally have these dinners or lunches to do that... what he has done, is thrown you crumbs...until he's back, you must continue on with the DBing, even when he's back.
You were excited about tonight, that's good, but he went back to her...do you see my point? It's far from over.
Now, one more time........................................ DO NOT ASK FOR HUGS, DO NOT ASK IF HE HAS TALKED TO HER... understand? You are putting way too much pressure on him.
