Tam - you need to start concentrating on you, no one else.
Your H doesn't complete who you are, you are your own person. And if HE decides he is going to come back or not, is his decision. In the meantime you need to take care of YOU
Just remember, as a couple you do not complete a "set". It takes two people, participating 100% each (not 50/50) to make a relationship work. If he's not there 100% you need to be able to move on and complete your own 100% world
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)