At is right. You've done the pleading, crying etc now it's time to let go. Will he come back? Who knows but right now his actions are not matching his promises to return. Maybe all your pursuing is keeping him away, maybe not. It's time to try something different. Back off, make yourself happy and let him see that you will do just fine without him. That may actually be what he needs to come back. It's worth thinking about and besides, either way you'll have to do it anyway. GAL and look after you.