I've been given the advice to stop chasing, stop asking about the OP and talking about our relationship, etc. I want to work on doing that, because I can sense that my constant pursuing of him is pushing him away, but I'm so afraid that if I stop he will think that I'm okay with things the way they are and that I don't mind if he continues to see her. I don't want him to think that I'm okay, but it sounds as if the advice I'm being given is to act like I AM okay - I'm scared! He has already told me that we make great business partners, which we do. I've told him that if now we could both just put as much effort into the romantic part of our relationship as we do our business that we would have something magical, and I truly believe that. So I worry that if I stop talking about us and my fears and desires that he will just be content with going about our business lives and keep going to her house every night for the romantic side of his relationship. I don't want him to think that that is okay with me, because it's not. I just want the chance to give him what I haven't before. I know I can do it, and I want desperately to show him that... So I'm afraid to completely back off... Thoughts?
