It's me again! Since my first thread was such a long post with my initial "story" of what has happened to me, I thought I would start a new one just to ask for some support on a specific issue.
So my husband is seeing another woman but has said that he is going to break it off with her and give us another chance but still has not done so. I am feeling so angry and hurt, as he is asking me to wait patiently for him while he continues to sleep with another woman every night! I've told him how much this is tearing me up inside, and he says he's sorry and doesn't know why he's doing it and keeps reassuring me (at my request) that is he going to give us another chance "no matter what." I'm absolutely dying inside. I've been doing a horrible job of chasing, crying, demanding, pursuing, etc., etc., and I know that that is just pushing him away, but I don't know how else to cope and feel like I'm absolutely dying inside and losing my mind!
So, two questions: 1.) Do you think I'm safe in believing him that he IS going to come back to me when he's ready? If so, what should I do to help make this happen sooner rather than later? 2.) Has anyone else been through this same situation that would be willing to share their experience with this with me? It's killing me to know that he says he wants to be with me but that he's going to her bed every night. I'm confused and frustrated and angry, sad - everything all rolled into one. Please help!
