But I can't do that. He is not staying at home - he's staying with her! And he told me that he felt guilty when we made love because he felt like he was cheating on her, so I don't want to try to seduce him (well, I actually do want to but respect his position and don't want to hurt him or for him to do anything that he doesn't want to do) but I don't know how to show him that I'm working on my sexual desire issue....