Thanks so much for the advice. I really appreciate it. I guess one of the hard things for me is that I know he already thinks I'm sexy and that he is attracted to me physically - that is not the problem. He told me the other day that any man would be lucky to have me - that made me feel so special. It's not the sexy "look" I guess is what I'm trying to say but rather the actual sex act - or lack of it I should say. So how do I show him that I am working on being more interested in sex itself in a "safe" way?
I will work on being more outgoing. It makes me feel good just to be with him, so I will work on scheduling more engagements for the two of us with others and, without telling him I'm doing it, will work on letting go and being more outgoing on those outings.
Has anyone has their spouse tell them that they were coming back while they were staying with the OP? I'd really love any feedback from someone who has been through this. I want so desperately to believe him when he says he is going to come home... Please help.
