I purchased the book "Getting Back Together". I am about half way through it. I will probably finish it tonight.
So far I like it. It seems to be giving me a pretty good barometer of where I am at. Looks like I have come a long way in the weeks since she said she wants to work on it, and I am probably further along than I should be in 4 weeks, but I realize I am lot farther than I want to be and I have a ways to go. So I hope it helps me maintain some patience.