What does it mean?

H is very very depressed right now. He was ok until I told him he needed to start sleeping in the spare bedroom. A good thing for my mental health is that the phone calls and texting are not happening in front of my face any longer. Although, I'm not stupid enough to think that they're not still occurring. Her calling/texting has been picking up since he told me about the A. She contacts him all day and all evening long. It's really pretty obsessive.

Since he told me, all kinds of drama has strangely started happening in her life, too. I know that she is trying for excuses to make him see how much she "needs" him.. She got some test results and blew them waaaay out of proportion until I did some research and told my husband what it was really about. I'm sure he thought, "If she is really dying, I need to be there for her". Ummmm... she's not dying.. ok??!!!

We have actually talked a ton about our relationship in the past week but now, all of sudden, he doesn't want to talk about anything at all. Again, this all started after I kicked him out of bedroom. He has cried and been very remorseful all week. Much more remorse this time than last. He has said he was sorry for hurting me 100 times. He has said that the whole time the A has been going on, they have talked about me and how he has always just wanted the connnection to be with me. What's that supposed to mean? Why would you say that stuff to your new "love"? I just don't know how to take it all. IT's so very confusing!!!!

What should I do now? Avoid him and wait for him to want to talk again? Try to just be a friend? I'm just not sure what approach to take. First C session is this week so maybe that will help... I just don't know...