Quote: It's a different struggle for me this time. The first time it was a feeling of fighting for my life. This time... I don't have a clear direction of what I really want to do.. It changes minute to minute...
This is exactlly me!!! I am where you are exactly.
Quote: How do others of you in the same sitch feel? Is it different this time for you?
Most defoinatly, its a total different kettle of fish.
My Head and Heart agreed lst time, I felt H had made a mistake and I really did actually feel sorry for him bcause he had F'd his life up.
This time my Head and heart are in total different opinions, where as my head is telling me the guys a Flaming jerk shove him off out of it, My heart is not agreeing, however I am not sure where my heart is.
I Know for myself I need to get rid of this man, it hurts like crazy, but I must do it!
Funny I always read Jonathan Crainers Horoscopes and they are spookily right sometimes.
Heres my today
'People who need people are,' so they say, 'the luckiest people in the world.' The composers of this famous ballad do not go on to explain what it is that those people need those other people for. All too often indeed, we find ourselves wondering what it is that certain individuals are doing in our lives. It seems necessary now to ask that question on your behalf. Your involvement with a particular person is proving less than fruitful. You don't know what to do. Relax. All will soon be made clear.
Sweetie, I really can not say any advise to you, Like me, you need to decide, Reading the starts above I,m hoping it means desisions will be made for me. My H has already told me He doesn't love me like he should, so I guess it may already have been.
I will tell you though, I was reading something on another forum today and I read a really sweet story of a lady who had met an old couple in Dr surgery. She asked how long they had been togeter and the old lady said 52 years!! when the person was surprised and told her WOW! the old lady said, " Look we have had problems, some serious, we have had 52 years worth of problems, but we have always stood together and with each other.
This story did make me think... Is there a pot of gold at the end of it, if you can just stand the test of time.
