That's pretty much how I feel - "S**t or get off the pot"! If you really want to work on our marriage, you will cut ties. I keep telling him that if he loves her that much, he needs to be with her.
One of my biggest concerns is for myself.. Even if we get back together, have I compromised who I really am and what I stand for by allowing him to have two affairs and come back to a marriage with me?
It's a different struggle for me this time. The first time it was a feeling of fighting for my life. This time... I don't have a clear direction of what I really want to do.. It changes minute to minute...
How do others of you in the same sitch feel? Is it different this time for you?
