Hey Brother, I have not posted to you and am not all caught up on your sitch but thought I could give you my 2 cents. Hope you do not mind.
Quote: I have been tring to convince her that I am not going to wait and might not be around but so far havn't been too successful
Once you state that you are not going to wait around on her let it go. Words are only words. She needs to see it through actions. Now I am telling you to go out and pick up someone. What I am telling you is to start moving on with your life for you. Do things for yourself that have nothing to do with her and keep it that way.
Get yourself prepared for life after the D. Be happy with yourself and let her go.
It seems like going dark is working....Look at all of the conv she is having with your mother talking about how you are not talking to her anymore....Seems like it is bothering her to me. But that is just my 2 cents.
Take care , O
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
