No that is not the kind of parent I want to be and I dont think that W wants to be either because she comes from parents like that. She says that she agrees with me on D and OMs relationship BUT actions speak louder than words. I dont know if W has trouble telling OM no or if she just doesnt know what she is doing or what.
OM did stay all night at W house with his 4 kids and my D. My D told me that all the kids slept in one room and W and OM in bedroom. Spoke my peice about it didnt get much from W but the excuss because of the ice storm roads were too bad.
Now this week-end W and OM is going with OM mom somewhere for part of the day. Now wait a minute. If she agrees with me of adding others into D's life right now, why in the hell is W adding another to the mix?
I have spoken my peice about the issue and made myself clear with W agreeing with almost everything but her actions speak differ.
My D4 has already had a lot of people come and go in her life already for being so young. She has lost serveral family members and W parents has both had serveral relationships that has disappeared. I know that all these losses does affect her. I have no idea what to do/say that I havent done already.
