the last couple of days I have been back to working on getting back on track and have done good. Yesterday W called and was very hasty at times but I showed my 180 and didnt escalate any.
Well last nigth the OM stayed the night at her house. I dont really care any more about them staying together but last night was the first he stayed at her (our) house and the first my daughter stayed night with them.
W and I have talked about OM and D being around/ having relationship with each other. She had agreed that it is wrong but her actions speak different.
It has only been a little over a month that we have been seperated....Does any body see that having the OM in the picture is damaging for a 4 year old this soon after a seperation?
Like I said...I dont care about them spending nights together any more but with D4 in the house? I feel that I should say something because of my daughter but dont want W to feel that I am just saying what I got to say because of W with OM and with everything that has happened in the past week.
Should I say something? Does anybody besides me veiw this as wrong?
