Quote: she didnt say anything...I was the one that said it all. All was related to OM and her R w/him. I basically called her serveral names and said serveral bad things about them together. I dont think she is mad over it anymore, I just think that she is affraid that I will go off again and I am not (or at least I am determined not to).
One of the factors in our S is my anger issues. I have greatly improved them and still working on them...even before the S. She stated that I changed but showed that night I blew up that I really didn't. I told her change takes time.
I Still havn't figured out what I am going to do. If I talk/apologies I think I should tonight. If I do wait it out will she think that I am still angry?
I have had this convo with my W many times. The fact is that they need to see change in their own time, and it does take time. Stay the course...it'll work out they way it's supposed to.
