You need to start concentrating on YOU and let her deal with herself. As much as you feel you did a major back-slide, you did tell her you would be there for her, should she decide to come around - that's good. But, at the same time, you have taken your power back by saying you can't live like that anymore. That's what I did and (fingers crossed) H and I are piecing things together. I know it won't happen overnight but anything worth its salt will take time
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
