I am sitting here reading the sitchs of other people and noticing how much alike so many things are. Seems very odd that all of this seems to start the same way and yet so often the finish is so different. Life is very confusing to say the least.
Now I have a question that I am wondering what others here think about my sitch at this moment. I talk to WAW about 5 times a day. She says I love you now every time we get ready to hang up. She told me she does not want a D and she has me staying at the house when ever I will. She never comes out and says she wants me to stay, she just says you ought to just stay here tonight. Or she has a reason for me to stay,(like she needs to leave early and wants me to stay so the kids don't have to get up early). I have kids at my place right now and we have a date on sat.(which she initiated). She is picking kids up after she gets off work and I am geting them back from her tonight when I get off work and then taking them back to her in the morning. while I am at work and then picking them back up after I get off work. Then I am taking them back with me when I pick her up for date sat. for babysiter to take care of them at the house where all of their things are(seems like alot of unnecessary back in forth for the kids to me) oh well I guess this will all happen for one reason or another. Now to get to my question. My W told me a couple of times she has tried to get ahold of her lawyer (a way of saying to me that she does not want the D.) It has been a couple weeks now of us moving in the right direction and still I have heard nothing from the lawyers about what is happening with the D proceedings. I am under a court order to pay her support and all of the bills at her house and until she stops this I can't legally move back into the house. Why has she not been able to get in touch with her lawyer if she has actually tried? and if she has not tried why is she telling me she has?


The ride is over.
M 38
WAW 39
08/06 out to give WAW space
Bomb 10/06
Back Home 2/07
New Bomb 4/17/07
WAW out 06/07
Trying again 09/07
Another Bomb 11/23/07
WAW moved back home 12/14/07
WAW moved back out 2/2/08
D 12
S 9