More good news. She needs to work through her issues and IC is the best way to do that. Her going may mean she is beginning to recognize she (and her issues) had a role to play in the failure of your M.

She needs to do this on her own. In fact, there may be no other way to do it that would be successful in the long run. Let her...and don't feel bad about it. This is the beginning of a growth process for her just as the past few months have been for you.

I'm praying your sitch continues to improve.