Amazing progress!! You've got to be feeling on cloud nine! This is all good, but you are right to be wary. If you've got DR, re-read the section that talks about the approach-avoidance cycle. You may be in it right now (and for a bit longer). As a result, you need to take it slow. Remember, if your W is really interested in reconciling, she'll be willing to let things progress in their own time.

My best wishes to you for continued success. Just think of all the times you felt there was no reason to go on! Your sitch is a ray of hope for many of us here.