Just getting started peicing it back together 2

[cat03]

I just need to hear from other people that I am doing the right thing. All my friends and family tell me that there is no use and I need to move on.

We all thought my cousin had lost her mind when she took back her cheating H who after having a PA spent so much money they had to sell their home to pay off his debt. We all thought she was making the stupidest desicion ever, NO one understood her. Only now do I see her point of view, after taking back my debt ridden cheating H, only now I understand, being in her shoes.

So don't let anyone tell you to take the easy way out, only people who've BTDT can truly see that what you are doing is the right thing, that you aren't bailing out and are fighting to keep your vows, your M together. So here it is from me, you are doing the right thing.