thanks, am sitting and nodding , agreeing to you too. That mind of ours, i totally agree!!
I am trying hard to sit back, and let H deal with his own devils and his own issues. Knowing I can't do any repair for him. But at the same time wanting to move forward full speed on US. And that is what I know won't happen, so will make my goals the baby steps of the good we have come and hope to continue. The same to you, enjoy those baby steps!