I am currently going through my second bomb (with the same H) and I have to say the first one took quite some time to get over (as a matter of fact I don't think I totally got over it before the second one hit) - about 4 years
Most MC will say you have to give it at least 1-2 years and really work on it - something your H doesn't seem to be doing, and something my H did not do the first time - thank goodness he is giving it his all this time around. There is nothing worse than feeling like you are walking on egg shells in a R - I think you need to take some positive steps to help YOU
Have you gone for counselling? Regardless of what your H does, it is very helpful
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
