Need to forgive OW and move on... help!!!!

[~Sol]

True--I had gotten to a point where I wasn't thinking about her much at all, but now it's back in my brain. I know that once I forgive she'll be gone again.

Aud,

You bring a very powerful and important point to the table. I am struggling again with thoughts of ripping the OM to shreds, even though I am now in the midst of the "post A", if there is such a thing. I too need to find forgiveness or I will go insane.....