Quote: I hope this will help. I am a recovering, almost no more ow.
KnowIMustStop,
Thank you for sharing that. Your post really does help a lot.
Actually reading the experiences and thoughts of different people involved in various aspects of affairs (those who have cheated, the OP, etc...) has been really helpful.
I agree that forgiveness can be very rewarding for everyone involved. I wish you luck in your healing as well. Realizing where you want to be is the first step. BTW, there's lots of great books in the self-help section of the bookstore on how to let go of and get over crummy relationships (some are REALLY funny!). Also, books with daily meditations are good too.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
