I don't think about H and the OW a great deal. No point. And I've always thought of time as my ally, because he'll realise it's just the same old thing. Being with a new person doesn't stop them getting old and boring eventually. But I had a little wistful thought today that they're creating shared memories. They've known each other for over a year now, will be coming up for a year of seeing each other. I believe they spent Xmas together with H's d8. They're building up a proper little R. That's a bit hard to think about. So I won't.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
